I used to be proud of being Dutch because the Netherlands were a very welcoming
country to foreign people historically as well in recent years up to 2001.
In the 1990s there had been a huge influx of mostly refugees and most of them
came from Arab and African countries, though also from China and other Asian
countries as well as from Eastern Europe. In particular anti-Muslim feelings
have grown in recent years and this has led to a very negative attitude towards
foreigners in general, which is matched by policies of deportation and all
sorts of ways of making it difficult for people to enter the country other
than as tourists, causing my pride to make place for shame. Even if people
want to marry a foreigner, more and more barriers are raised before admission
is given. The one positive point remaining is that, compared to almost any
other country, including Japan, things are easy for those who want to marry
a foreign same-sex partner.